IT’S ALL ABOUT KIDS LAND

Yesterday night while walking around the house here in ste rose i played with a yellow ball, bouncing it around, met 2 men with 3 dogs, nice dogs, full of life, especially one, no malice, after i met a couple with a baby girl and a dog…always stop to talk to dogs..the dog was a mix of shitsu and other kind. always testing baby’s, said hello little baby girl, she smiled back with a big joyful smile, looks like they are lucky and got themselves a good baby, a happy baby..good for them…I never had problems with my girls, they where brought up with a hand of iron, but unlike my parents, we where not exactly in the army….my girls got the routine, children like routine it’s making them feel secure, sometime getting off routine is ok, but never in their school years they where aloud to sleep later at night, 7:30pm max, unlike others, i let them do what they wanted till 8pm…read, write, play with games in their bed, the reason was to make them relax before going to sleep and let them make their own choice at a very young age, bed time was non negociable, they did’nt even try with me, but the fact that i respected what they wanted to do in bed, the oldest was her books, she succeeded in school and now has a Baccalauréa in language of french,  »es art ». The other one did’nt like to read she would rather try to disturb peace, but she played with toys or other stuff, but finally the result is that they made their own choice in life, did’nt force them to be a doctor or lawyer or dentist, they chose what they wanted, and i made myself a  »devoir » to look at their homeworks or drawings or anything they where proud of, encouragements is the best to make your children think highly of themselves in their accomplishments instead of pounding them with bad words, fortunately they had the learning skills and the happyness of learning just like me…an inheritance…that comes from my family, our family where all very intelligent people, my grand parents where kindhearted, never said any stupidity to me unlike my parents, especially my mother, why ? i wondered a long time about this, and the only answer is that she made me a strong person, capable of defending myself, I lacked love and hugs at home, tried to get this love in adolescence, with several boyfriends or friends..always defended the less strong kids especially the week one’s, cause children are very nasty, my daughters have been i guess bugged in school but what amazes me is that my oldest daughter was always a perfect student and finally she was left alone, she is strong, because when you are mistreated in school you lack concentration on study’s and must think of how you’re gonna defend yourself every time you enter school.  »les cancres » and the beautiful one’s like to disturb shit…as far as i am concerned it’s criminal, Your schooling years are what you will become in the future…I despise them, i hate them, i hope that there is a justice one day, life is short and if you can’t study in school you are missing your life….kel-paix wordpress.com